Going Going Gone
Last week I moved my oldest daughter (Mattie) to Alabama.
She is going to start her new career.
Today I fly to Texas to move Emily, my youngest, into her dorm.
She is also starting a new chapter in her life.
I am excited for my girls; they are strong, courageous, and know what they want.
I am also a little sad.
I will miss hearing the sound of their laughter.
I will miss having Sunday night dinner with them.
I will miss our late-night conversations.
Weeks ago, I asked myself how I wanted to show up during the move.
I decided on purpose what my thoughts would be regarding the change.
"Nothing has gone wrong."
"This is normal."
"They are ready."
"I am excited for their furture."
I know if I dont take the time to think all of this through, I will be a hot mess. I will be reactive and not responsive.
This is the very definition of self-care and self-love.
I am taking the time to discover what feelings I am experiencing.
I am deciding what I want to think, feel and do ahead of time.
I know that I can show up and be the best version of myself and be loving, kind, and supportive to those around me better if I take care of my emotional needs first.
I have to take care of myself because if I don't, history will repeat itself.
I will be blindsided by fear, overwhelm, and anxiety.
I will have a meltdown.
Leaving me emotionally exhausted and like I have been run over by a train.
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